Alex Rodriguez shares a cryptic message about changing ‘direction’ on Instagram the same day his ex-fiancée, Jennifer Lopez, files to divorce Ben Affleck. Alex and Jen called off their two-year engagement in 2021, just weeks before the pop star rekindled her romance with Ben. She and the actor tied the knot in 2022, but are now going their separate way as of Tuesday, their two year wedding anniversary. A source tells ET, the date of Jen’s filing was chosen to ‘symbolize closing this chapter.’